This is a different side of the person you guys have been experiencing, I’m finally allowing my anger out. Please excuse my language.
Why the fuck do “men” these days act like teenagers still!? Like your almost 30 and your still acting like a 16 year old? Playing this fucking I love you shit after a god damn day? You love a person who lives 3 provinces away? How the fuck!?
In grade 5 I would have pulled that crap, in grade 10 I would have pulled that shit too. But once I turned 17 I understood that love, real love, takes time. You can’t love a person you don’t know, you can’t love a person you’ve never seen angry or sad or sleep deprived. You can’t love someone who you’ve never seen stressed, you can’t love someone based on the outside. Do you know her demons? Or the things that lurk in the back of his mind at night when it’s quiet? Do you accept his insecurities or encourage her to be better? NO you probably don’t. Will you be there when they are experiencing loss? Can you stand up and be their backbone when they’ve lost their nerve?
How can you love someone when 2 weeks ago you were sleeping with another girl?
Or messaging me telling me to come cuddle? Or inviting me to meet your son?
I’m angry because I am hurt
I’m hurt because I let my walls down to allow someone new in and it back fired on me.
I’m hurt because I told you about my insecurities and you listened, you told me about yours and together we bonded over the sorrow we’ve both been through.
I’m hurt because we shared so much in common, but I should have known. I should have known from past mistakes that drugs and alcohol will always be stronger then any bond or shared interests.
I’m hurt because for the first time in 3 years I wanted to break my sobriety and drink until I felt nothing.
I’m hurt because I cared about someone who had absoultely no intentions of caring about me.
I’m hurt and I’m angry
And I hate that I have to deal with this again.